[ My Mom and Dad.... Eve. Joseph Garnepudi and Lizamma Garnepudi. Who are inspired me to serve the Lord and Saviour JESUS CHRIST...]
1.Prayer:
God our Father,
in your wisdom and love you made all things.
Bless these men,
that they may be strengthened as Christian fathers.
Let the example of their faith and love shine forth.
Grant that we, their sons and daughters,
may honor them always
with a spirit of profound respect.
Grant this through Christ our Lord.
Amen
2.The Introduction:
On the
occasion of Father’s Day it becomes important
for all of us to examine the significance and the meaning of Father as
Christians living in the twenty-first century! As children we have always viewed our fathers as superhuman, all
powerful, with immense strength, as epitomized by the advertisement with the
catch line, “my daddy strongest!” As we grew up we realized that our
father was as human as we were, with the usual human weaknesses,
tiredness, mood swings, mixed with concern , a desire to sacrifice for
his children and a readiness to go that extra mile for us.There would have been
moments when he would be strict with us, and reprimand us when we did wrong!
The ideal father, appears to one with a judicious mix of strictness
and kindness as exemplified in the passage in 1
Corinthians 4:14-21, written by Paul to the church in Corinth:
“I do not write these things to make you ashamed,
but to admonish you as my beloved children. For though you have countless
guides in Christ, you do not have many fathers. For I became your father in
Christ Jesus through the gospel. I urge you, then, be imitators of me. That is
why I sent you Timothy, my beloved and faithful child in the Lord, to remind
you of my ways in Christ, as I teach them everywhere in every church. Some are
arrogant, as though I were not coming to you. But I will come to you soon, if
the Lord wills, and I will find out not the talk of these arrogant people but
their power. For the kingdom of God does not consist in talk but in power. What
do you wish? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love in a spirit of
gentleness?”
This passage may be viewed as the Biblical Model
of what fatherly intervention, correction and discipleship should be in the
context of effective parenting!
As we grew up, we began to examine instances
from the Bible describing the qualities of effective fathers. In the
Bible ideal Fathers are seen as those fathers who have displayed
immense patience and forgiveness, fathers who have been a source of
inspiration and
encouragement and support. The Father in the Holy Bible forms part of
the
Trinity of The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit! In the Book of
Genesis
1:1 we view God the Father as the Creator who made not only the world,
but also
Adam and Eve, “In the beginning God created the Heaven and the Earth.”
But then
we also see an angry Father when he banishes Adam and Eve from the
Garden of Eden, in Genesis 3:23-24, “Therefore the Lord God sent him
forth from
the Garden of Eden...he drove out the man.”
The coming of Jesus Christ however, shows us a Father who is forgiving.
In the prayer of penitence we are reminded of how “God so loved the
world that he gave his only son Jesus Christ
to save us from our Sins”. Jesus’ unquestioning faith in a Father he
loved is reflected throughout his life and specially in the words he
said before surrendering his
spirit on the cross: “ And when Jesus had cried with a loud voice, he
said,
Father, into thy hands I commend my Spirit”-Luke 23:46. So, then what is
it in
a father that commands so much trust and faith in a child?
3.Some
important Father figures in the Holy Bible:
The Holy Bible also has mentioned some important
Father figures who act as important role models for all fathers. Some of the
noteworthy Father figures mentioned in the Bible are as follows:
1. Noah, whom God liked so much that he and his family was selected to be saved from the
flood.
2. Abraham, whose immense Faith in God is reflected in his unquestioning readiness to
sacrifice his son Issac. This obedience to his Maker is a victorious
affirmation of faith and trust. When God saw that Abraham was about to
sacrifice his son Issac, then God stopped Abraham’s hand saying, “Lay not thine
hand upon the lad...for now I know that thou fearest God seeing thou has not withheld
thy son thine only son from me”-Genesis 22:12
3. Lot was a righteous family man, an excellent Father, so it was only his family
that was saved from the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah!
4. The
Father of the Prodigal Son: Part of the answer to the question I asked in the
Introduction, “ What is it in a father that commands so much trust and faith in
a child?” might be found in the Parable of the Prodigal son. The Father
welcomed back a son whom he had lost with arms held wide open. The son who had
fallen into bad ways, squandered all his money, and became a caretaker of
swine. He later repented and set up on a path of reformation, accepted his
wrongdoing and decided to return to his father. His father gave him his ring,
got the servants to bathe him, dress him in fine clothes and hosted a sumptuous
feast honouring his son’s return! How many fathers are ready to let go of their
vindictiveness and ego to forgive their sons?
4.What
does the Bible say about the role of Fathers?
A large number of verses provide guidance and
suggestions about the challenges and difficult roles played by Fathers
especially in today’s context.
Malachi 4:6
“6 And he will turn
the hearts of the fathers to the children, And the hearts of the children to
their fathers, Lest I come and strike the earth with a curse.”
In today’s times of stress, struggle, and
material responsibilities it becomes very important for fathers and children to
connect together. It is important for fathers and their children to spend
quality time with each other. The lack of communication, empathy, and understanding
between fathers and children is known to alienate them from each other, often
resulting in children straying from the path of Righteousness and joining bad
company, resorting to drugs and other harmful habits!
Psalm 103:13
“13 As a father has
compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him;”
A model father should have compassion for his
children. He should display immense patience for his children, guiding them on
in life, sharing with them his love, and showing to his children that he really
care for them!
Ephesians 6:4
“4 And you, fathers,
do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and
admonition of the Lord.”
Fatherhood is about patience and love. It is
about training children to be good human beings, righteous, and honest without
being too harsh, hostile and overly
aggressive with them. Excess harshness is known to provoke aggression in
children, and makes them stubborn!
Proverbs 3:11-12
“11 My son, do not
despise the chastening of the LORD, Nor detest His correction; 12 For whom the
LORD loves He corrects, Just as a father the son in whom he delights.”
Chastisement, training, and discipline are
important duties and challenging roles for the father. While no doubt compassion
and love play important roles in fatherhood, training and disciplining of
children should not be ignored otherwise
children will turn out to be pampered and spoiled.
How should
we treat our Fathers?
Exodus 20:12
“12 “ Honor your
father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the LORD
your God is giving you.”
It is clear that true success, longevity, and
prosperity depend on honouring our parents. Children who respect their parents
are blessed! This is also an important commandment which is also a promise.
Psalm 112:1,2
“1 Praise the LORD!
Blessed is the man who fears the LORD, Who delights greatly in His
commandments. 2 His descendants will be mighty on earth; The generation of the
upright will be blessed”
The same sentiment is echoed in the above passage
as in the previous one.
5.Conclusion:
Ultimately the challenges before all fathers, and
of course their children are numerous in today’s times of technological
advancement, dissemination of information and the impact of Globalisation as a
result of the Internet. Fewer and fewer children are going to church today. In
many western countries, a large number of people attending mass are the middle
aged or the very aged! Today Youth fellowship is dwindling in Churches across
the country. The ideal father should try to be more involved in the lives of
his children. He should try to share the fact that his success in life is the
result of his Faith in the Almighty Lord, and what God has done for him!
Ultimately it is the Father’s responsibility to bring his children up in the
Christian Faith, and Christian Spirit.
For more information, Prayers and counseling you can contact,
Rev. Adbhuta Rao. Garnepudi
Millinium Baptist Church
Nambur, Guntur (Dist), A.P, S. India
milliniumbaptistchurchministries@yahoo.com
mbcministries.india@gmail.com
(+91)9848150491, 9908054910